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                                                   "Forever is composed of nows"


Nowadays most gay-guys would drool over looks rather than knowing the person before gutting out in bed. Merely, it is too impossible to find that person who doesn't just adore you but will love you faithfully. Nowadays it is by sheer chance to find someone who  will accept all your flaws and will accept you the way you are and the way you see the world.

He  may not be forcing you to change, instead he will let you just be yourself. Now I'm talking figuratively.    Realizing how hard it is  to battle it out in the society where social media is an indispensable tool in finding hook up, quick meet ups and the likes. It is by chance to land in someone's arm without  knowing what is Grindr, Planet Romeo, Scruff and other social sites.

I admit that I'd met a handful of guys on these site, I am not clean enough to say I haven't dated anyone who happened to not  know all of these. My point is: "it is easy to meet and fuck and it is easy to dispose as well." This is the given fact that we gay-guys know. There are so many hopefuls out there, so many people who wants to love and be loved. So many gays gutting it out to find someone, their forever- and yet their behavior towards dating is somewhat shallow. Is it because we can easily find someone if we get dump? Is it because by just showing our flesh online we could easily get a hook up? Sadly, it's a big yes.

I adore how my uncle taught me about forever, how he told me to take a chance out there but to remain principled about love and relationship. At some point it helped me think to always reserved myself for someone who will definitely love me. I am not trying to be mellow-dramatic, but I  just believe that there is someone out there for me. And that principle cannot be taken away from me. It is better to hope, than to have never hoped at all.

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This picture speaks a thousand words.

The LGBT community was ecstatic upon seeing this photo. Everyone was raving about this couple- sweet and bold as most of us tagged it.

Sweet enough that it depicted the kind of relationship most us wanted to have, to be able to do things that we love, show to people that we can do anything in the name of love. True enough that this is a symbol of sweetness at its heights. I couldn't agree more.

Bold that made everyone raved, made everyone wonder and made everyone wants to have that kind of relationship. The picture didn't just show us boldness, it also shows happiness and that everyone no matter what gender you belong you have the RIGHT to show your emotions, your affection towards the person you love.

I am not certain if this couple is for real or just another bold statement for equality rights. Regardless, it drooled us to hope and to fight for our feelings. It gives us the notion that it could happened to those who seeks for love, and that LGBT community can be sweet by showing off their affection in public and can be bold by standing up for what we believe is fair and right for us.

May God bless their relationship!

(photo is from google)

Last night while eating at a karenderia I've heard the owner's conversation with his friends and some spectators listening to his litanies about gays and the cause of it. I tried keeping my self off the hook as to not being noticed I am listening. The owner knows me since I have been a patron in their food-stall.

He was discussing facts about being gay and what's the real cause of it. He detailed out all the possibilities that may cause why is someone gay and how can it be prevented from happening. I was jotting down all his theories and as per him it came from his study and research. Well, I gotta ponder on that.

The lady at my side was  worried since the owner is pointing out some possibilities of her son's future and a huge possibility of him to be gay. Looking at her shocked with the information, she quickly rebutted, as to yet another fancy words "that it is not possible." She was pointing out that her son is not gay and will never be.

The owner now laid all the reasons basing it on his theories and research. One main reason is

• FOOD

At this point, I butt in and said "My dad came out at the age of 54, and there was no issue about it. I added that he has been a good provider and never let us feel like we are less of a person. He attended all the things that we needed and we are quite happy, satisfied. At first we were sadden by the truth, but we can't live with it, letting our dad suffered from discrimination and stereotyping."

The owner just shag off and laughed. I don't think that someone should be blaring words against gays and how we live. It is shouldn't also be a bases for anyone to prejudged someone who is gay on will he be able to feed his family or whatnot. My point is, life can be unfair. There are those who wants to live free, but they can't, not only they're scared but at the same time, there are so many factors to regard to when choosing freedom to come out.

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