(Got it here)

I was asked about this yesterday, of all things to be asked to me why the heck Porn became the best question that came up on his brain. It was like a total wipe out  of an absurd idea. Really?      

But hell yes, honesty is the best policy.

My response- I was weighing if my answer would affect my demureness since I told 'em I am demure but my slutty look takes it away. Hey I am still demure, right? Paving the way to those porn addicts I said "I do watch porn, but I would never drool myself just to see that everyday." So the bribe is, telling them to watch porn but with a sense of responsibility for themselves. How about  that? Truly porn is something that every parents shunning their children to watch for, but as the technology is rising higher and higher, the parents are waking up in Vegas so late in protecting their kids to it.

Watching Porn as a Habit?

Should I say a bad habit? Sort of  a yes and  a no. I don't know. Even myself at the age of 22 is still so naive on watching porn, it is like a haven on letting my frustration of becoming a porn movie actor come true. By watching porn sometimes, it is a rewarding passage of life. As we all grow up, we noticed the changes of  our body, thinking and of course the world as we see it. Influence is everywhere!
So I asked myself on how could I possibly shun  bad  influences that are scattering everywhere. "The best answer was try to check it, if you like it go for it- and if you don't then quit." I am responsible for the things that might happened to me.



As what I have said at the top, you can do anything on this world, but the sense of responsibility is a must. So exploration is not a problem nor a sin, but to abuse it is a no no. Try to understand the evolution of yourself. Listen to the voice of your soul. Taking responsibility is the best thing to do. You can do anything, sex, drink, party, travel, or do whatever you wanted to do, but in the end "you yourself is the devisee of all things that you have done." Either it is wrong or right.

You have to understand that the influence of our peers, cyber spaces, social networking sites as well as porn sites would determined how willed are we on making decisions for ourselves. Why am I blabbing this, on this very cold/humid weather of Saturday I just want you to know the difference of letting yourself enthused by all these and/or being so responsible on deeds that we have. So to know that maturity counts a lot.

As per Tom Robbins : “Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.”